The Sag New Moon is a great time to party!
Are you ready to partay? Then you’re going to love the New Moon in Sagittarius!
Just in time for the holidays, the Sag New Moon will infuse you with a sense of joy, freedom and optimism – a perfect recipe for gathering with friends and family to just have a good time.
Sagittarius is ruled by the planet Jupiter which the ancients called “the Greater Benefic”, believing it’s energy infused us with a sense of purpose, adventure and happiness. In astrology, if you’re born with a prominent Jupiter in your natal chart, it’s said that you’re born under a lucky star. And really, wherever Jupiter appears in your birth chart, you’ll feel a little extra glow and ease in that area of your life.
When is the best time to tap into the upbeat, idealistic energy of Sagittarius?
When the Sun moves through the sign of Sagittarius each year from November 22nd to December 21st, we all have a chance to tap into that light-hearted vibe, regardless of our zodiac sign. Of course, that energy will be super-charged in the three days before and after the New Moon on December 7th when both the Sun and the Moon are dancing cheek to cheek. Well, actually, that might be a little tame for Sagittarius – they’re probably jitter-bugging instead!
New Moons in general are powerful times to plant seeds for the ideas, plans, and actions you want to grow over the coming weeks as the Moon itself waxes towards full again. Sagittarius is a fire sign (like Aries and Leo), so you’ll be drawn to create those intentions in dynamic, expansive ways. That energy is represented perfectly by the Archer, Sag’s symbol in astrology – looking ahead with a sense of purpose, setting your sights in that direction, and letting your creativity and focus carry you there, both in your life and in your relationships.
Are you getting the idea that this Sagittarius New Moon energy is pretty hard to suppress?
And there’s more. While it’s true that you’ll have a good time getting your Sagittarius groove on, there’s also a deeper side to this fun-loving sign. The same urge to “live large” also shows up as a thirst for experiences beyond your every-day life – to travel to new places, explore other cultures and philosophies, and to generally expand your horizons spiritually and intellectually.
The biggest cautionary concern (and every zodiac sign has them) is to not go over-board in whatever area or activity you’re exploring during the Sagittarius cycle. Just add “over” to any of those Sag traits and you’ll get the picture: over-indulgent, over-confident, overly-optimistic, over-active. Fortunately, that same energy also carries with it lots of charm and friendliness, so even if you offend or overwhelm someone, you’ll likely be forgiven quickly!
So, how can you harness the exuberance of the upcoming New Moon in Sagittarius on December 7th to create some heart-and-mind-expanding lunar love magic for yourself and/or your partner?
Assembling your magical Sagittarius toolkit
In order to create some powerful activities to maximize this energy, it’s important to know some basic Sagittarius associations:
Elemental energy – Fire
Colors – purple
Gemstones – Topaz, Turquoise, lapis lazuli
Flowers – exotic flowers like jasmine, gladiolus, amaryllis
Essential Oils – Geranium, frankincense, rosemary, High John the Conqueror (a traditional good luck oil from American folklore).
Music – jazz, brass, free-spirited
Food/Drink – exotic, non-traditional, multi-cultural
And if you really want to pack your toolkit to the brim, you could also research Sagittarius-themed movies, books, clothes, animals, places in nature… the list is endless, depending on what you and your partner are drawn to explore.
Infusing your love life with Sagittarius New Moon Energy
If you’re in a relationship, you can only enhance it by remembering to stay on the light side, as often as you have those IMPORTANT deep conversations. In my work with couples, I hear from both women and men all the time that they don’t find enough time to just be with each other in care-free, joyful ways.
So, bring in the upbeat side of Sagittarius and take the initiative to find some fun activities to do together during this New Moon cycle. Create your lunar love nest with some of the goodies in your magical Sag toolkit, maybe starting with a special dinner and ending up with some adventurous play in the bedroom!
Here are a few ideas to get you started:
1) Plan an adventure – For some of you, “adventure” might look like skydiving, bungee jumping, or river-rafting. But you don’t have to be looking for a high-octane buzz to capture the Sag spirit. Maybe visiting a nearby outdoor art installation or an exotic animal park does it for you. And if you’ve got the time and resources, book a long weekend trip to someplace you’ve never been to before. Iceland, Hawaii, Vancouver, Cancun, anyone?
2) Channel your inner Katniss. Take the Archer symbol literally! For the uninitiated, Katniss is the bow-and-arrow-wielding heroine of the “Hunger Games” series. She honed her skills in battle, but you can be more Sag-like and plan a trip to a nearby archery center with friends or your lover and take a few lessons sometime around the New Moon.
3) Make dinner an international experience! Keep in mind that with Sag’s gregarious, “out there” energy, a quiet dinner at home may not be the way to go, unless you make it multi-cultural experience. Moroccan tagine, Indian biryani, or a Chinese dish with five-spice powder are all fun ideas, or go to a favorite ethnic restaurant. For drinks, musky chai latte or spiced wine are good choices for your tangy Sag taste buds.
4) Hit a comedy club or karaoke bar. After dinner, you can head to where the action is – just be sure there’s lots of variety since Sag’s energy can make you feel a little (or a lot) restless. Maybe someplace with a great line-up of comedians or nightclub acts. Or if one of you feels the urge to be in the limelight yourself, find a great place to do some karaoke. And of course, Sagittarius is always is up for a dance party… just make sure the DJ or band plays a creative mix of joyful music.
And for something totally different…
5) Visit a local monastery or meditation center. Remember, this New Moon in Sagittarius is also designed to get you thinking about the deeper meaning in life. Many retreat centers like the Omega Insttitute offer “satsangs” (gatherings for truth-seekers) or kirtan (sacred chanting), both powerful group experiences. A solitary one would be really tough with Sag’s social energy, and besides, you want to be able to share the bliss with your sweetie!
6) Make a list of everything that’s working in your life and/or relationship. Whether you’re naturally a “glass half full” kind of person or not, we all have times when we feel emotionally, spiritually or physically drained. The Sagittarius New Moon can give you a hopeful, optimistic foundation to take a look at those challenges and to find the gifts there, but also to appreciate the big and little things you already have to be grateful for. Definitely an important conversation to have with your partner, too.
7) Finally, to the bedroom. With its restless nature, Sagittarius may not be the most seductive of the zodiac signs so just be sure to include lots of variety when you create your lunar love nest. Start with Sag’s magical associations – purple scarves, geranium-scented candles, and some great Sag-themed music — “Freedom” by George Michael or “Go Your Own Way” by Fleetwood Mac are good upbeat starters. Maybe Beethoven’s Symphony 9, Ode to Joy, to tap into that Sag optimism, or Michael Jackson’s “Heal the World” for a little more spiritual vibe. Whatever you choose, get creative and experimental with your love-making… falling asleep from lack of imagination is not an option on the Sagittarius New Moon!
There are so many directions to go when you’re playing with any New Moon energy, and with Sagittarius in particular, your lunar love magic can have even more variety.
And I hope it’s obvious, singles, that most of the ideas here can be adapted for solo exploration, too. Even if some of them require a partner, think of it as important prep work for when you’ve attracted the playmate of your dreams!
Hi, I’m Deborah Roth, a Life and Relationship Coach, and also a Counseling Astrologer and Interfaith Minister. My Master’s thesis was on the power of transformative ritual and I love designing creative, meaningful rituals for individuals and couples to re-energize mind, body and spirit, and enhance their relationships.You can learn more about my work HERE or email me at Deborah@SpiritedLiving.com to schedule an introductory coaching session.